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From the Publisher

Happy Valentine’s Day! This issue is filled with love, both familial and romantic. Rene Ohana, the author of this month’s story, Grandpa Dragon, has also written a fascinating piece on same-sex marriages between women in China that is on our politics page.

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Interview with Lisa C Moore
of RedBone Press

By Laura Matanah

RedBone Press has been in business for ten years and publishes work celebrating the cultures of black lesbians and gay men, and work that further promotes understanding between black gays and lesbians and the black mainstream.

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Rainbow Rumpus: In the News

Kansas is Coming Out! More International GLBT Groups get UN Status. A Disproportionate Amount of Homeless Youth Identify as LGBT and more.

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Rainbow Rumpus founder and publisher Laura Matanah

From the Publisher

Happy Valentine’s Day! This issue is filled with love, both familial and romantic. Rene Ohana, the author of this month’s story, Grandpa Dragon, has also written a fascinating piece on same-sex marriages between women in China that is on our politics page. These marriages took place from the mid 1600s to the early 1900s. For those of you who hate Valentine’s Day, we have an interview with Lisa C. Moore (below), founder of RedBone Press, who refuses to publish romances.

We appreciate all the love you’ve been sending our way. There are now more than five hundred of you on our e-mail list! Our e-mails give you an "inside look” at what’s happening at Rainbow Rumpus. If you’d like to join, click here and write “join e-mail list” in the subject line.

Rainbow Rumpus is pleased to be receiving a grant from the Philanthrofund Foundation this month. The grant will enable us to meet more of you at festivals in the upper Midwest and expand our work with our ever-growing group of volunteers. If you’re interested in volunteer opportunities, please see our “Contact Us” page.

We want to build our connections with those of you in smaller cities and rural areas. Next month we will begin interviewing children on a monthly basis and posting their responses in our bulletin board section. Our April question will be: What non-gay parades or festivals does your family take part in? (Examples: regional festivals, May Day, Juneteenth, Cinco de Mayo) How are these events important to you? If your child or a child you know would like to be interviewed, please send us an e-mail with the age of the child and the family’s contact information.

If you live in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area, get ready to join us in preparing for the May Day parade! If you’d like to join us in creating Flo and Mo puppets that we will march with, please send us an e-mail, and we’ll let you know about dates and times. We’re also looking forward to spending time with your children at the Rainbow Families conference in Minneapolis this April.

We love hearing from folks both near and far. Thanks for being a part of Rainbow Rumpus.

Laura Matanah
Publisher

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Interview with Lisa C. Moore of RedBone Press

By Laura Matanah

RedBone Press has been in business for ten years and publishes work celebrating the cultures of black lesbians and gay men, and work that further promotes understanding between black gays and lesbians and the black mainstream. RedBone’s first book, does your mama know? An Anthology of Black Lesbian Coming Out Stories, won two 1997 Lambda Literary Awards, for Small Press and Lesbian Studies. The second title, the bull-jean stories by Sharon Bridgforth, won the 1998 Lambda Literary Award for Small Press. RedBone’s most recent book as of this interview is Spirited: Affirming the Soul and Black Gay/Lesbian Identity.

Tell us about what led you to found RedBone.

My youngest sister was in college, and I was picking her up every day. An acquaintance of hers had seen the pink triangle on my car and asked if she could have a ride home, even though she didn’t live anywhere close. We went back to my house first; she was looking for books about lesbians, and she found a bonanza! She asked if there were any books for black lesbians coming out, and I could have sworn I had one, but when I looked through my shelves there wasn’t. There were some stories in The Coming Out Stories by Julia Penelope and a few other stories in various places, Sojourner and Common Lives, Lesbian Lives (which is now out of print). I got permission to anthologize those and put out a call for new stories and started getting them. That became does your mama know? An Anthology of Black Coming Out Stories.

That was the first book, but you’ve got a bunch now.

I do have a bunch. Ten and number eleven at the printers. It’ll come out in a few weeks (and should be available by the printing of this article). After does your mama know? I found I really liked publishing, distribution, and marketing. Next I did the bull jean stories, and the author said, “Are you going to do more?”

RedBone publishes anthologies, poetry, and fiction. Why those genres?

I haven’t shied away from genres except romance. I don’t like romance. The bull jean stories is fiction, but on the page it looks like poetry. It’s meant to be read out loud, performed, but it also works on the page. I’ve had to educate audiences about what they can read. People get scared off by something that looks like poetry.

Because I’m a one-woman press I can choose what I like. When I got Blood Beats, which is reviews, film and music criticism, and interviews, … I really liked it. I thought, “He’s clear, he’s smart, and he makes you think.” I hope to appeal to an audience who is hungry for this kind of writing that makes them think and broadens their horizons.

How is the marketing/selling going?

[It’s going] well, especially now that I’m targeting academia. Targeting people who are looking to think. With bull jean, I did lots of marketing with black lesbian support groups around the country, and I still do that.

This is [also] the first year with [RedBone having a] web site. It’s interesting to have to do maintenance, update it, keep people interested.

Spirited examines how black same-gender loving people affirm themselves as both sexual and spiritual beings. What led you to choose this topic?

It fell into my lap. LaShonda Barnett approached me with an anthology of black lesbians writing about spirituality and religion. I knew G. Winston James had put out a call for black gay men, so I asked them if they wanted to collaborate. Then LaShonda left to pursue fiction writing, and I ended up as one of the editors, although I hadn’t been to church, just weddings and funerals. That was as close as I’d gotten to organized religion of the Christian sort.

Did anything surprise you?

It surprised me personally about how important religion and spirituality [are] to black gay men and lesbians. I hadn’t been raised in a church, in a traditional black Christian background. I was Christian/Catholic as a young girl; then my mom joined the Nation of Islam when I was seven, but I left for college at sixteen, so I was never that connected to any of it.

G. Winston James (the other editor) is from Jamaica and had a strongly Christian background. I think we did well in selecting what resonated with us and what would resonate with audiences from different backgrounds.

How do you see the experiences of black GLBT people illuminating spiritual and religious life?

I think black GLBT people have so much to give, spiritually, religiously, and artistically. Once people begin to realize that it’s about spirit, not about who you sleep with, there’s a lot of barriers that can be broken.

I think that’s one of the messages that GLBT people bring to the world. “Hey, we’re different, but we’re not so different that you need to treat us like dogs on the street.”

Religion has so much turmoil when it comes to sexuality of any kind, not just gay people. It’s not comfortable with sexuality unless it’s tied to procreation. [That’s] not spiritual. Somebody just made those rules up.

There is so much pain among GLBT people over differing interpretations of God’s intentions around same-sex love. Do you see a path to reconciliation?

I think that the path is to educate yourself, to read and learn more about religion and spirit. It doesn’t have to be what you grew up with. People’s paths aren’t one and the same. If it's painful, don’t do it; it should be easy and feel right.

How do you see GLBT people as parents, aunts and uncles, and friends playing a role in providing religious education and spiritual guidance to our young people?

[We have to tell them] it's not all Shrek and the Incredibles! (Laughter) My nine-year-old niece just left here, and that’s all I’ve heard for the past two weeks.

We have a responsibility to be true to ourselves and show people there’s other ways to live. I raised my sisters; they always tell me that if it wasn’t for me, they wouldn't know there were other ways to be in the world.

Is there anything else you’d like to say to our readers— parents, children, and allies?

Parents: Much luck to you, you’ve got a hard row to hoe. My partner has two teenagers. I’ve only raised young kids. You’ve got the hardest job in the world. That’s what my dad told me, and he told me, “The two hardest things are to teach them how to use the bathroom and how to eat.” My hat is off. Keep on keeping on; it’s worth it.

Kids: Find out what you’re good at, and do it. That’s the secret to life.

Allies: Keep your eyes open, your mind open, 'cause diversity and variety, that’s what we got here. [People say] “God created this diversity?” Well, yeah! Continue your work as allies.

Where can people find your books?

They’re at independent bookstores across the country. Also at spdbooks.org, a small press distributor that’s been in business almost thirty years. They’re also at Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble online, and you can get them through me at www.RedBonepress.com.

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Rainbow Rumpus: In the News

Kansas Is Coming Out!

In the aftermath of Kansans’ vote in April 2005 to amend their constitution to ban gay marriage, many once-closeted members of the state’s gay community are coming out in public protest. Gary J. Gates, a demographer for the Williams Institute on Sexual Orientation Law and Public Policy, found a startling 68 percent rise in Kansan households headed by same-sex partners between 2000 and 2005. Furthermore, in 2005, eleven out of every 1,000 couples in Kansas reported themselves as same-sex. New Jersey and New York, states traditionally known to be more accepting of LGBT people, reported that 12 and 14 out of every 1,000 couples, respectively, are same-sex—surprisingly close to the numbers in Kansas.

The gay rights movement has been slow to catch on in Kansas (there weren’t any statewide gay rights organizations until 2004). Gay activism, however, seems to be catching on as more and more people are facing their fears and fighting their state’s anti-gay legislation and the animosity of Rev. Fred Phelps, leader of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kansas, who has begun to protest funerals of U.S. soldiers killed in Iraq because the army tolerates homosexuality.

The Kansas Equality Coalition, a group with a mission to end discrimination based on sexual preference, is rapidly growing in size, and many who join are straight. As the harsh social climate toward the LGBT community softens in Kansas, perhaps the state’s anti-gay legislation will also start to change.

Source: The New York Times

More International GLBT Groups Get UN Status

The United Nations Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC) granted consultative status to three non-governmental LGBT organizations (NGOs). The Danish National Association for Gays and Lesbians, the European Region of the International Lesbian and Gay Association, and the Lesbian and Gay Federation in Germany all address human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity. The consultative status will allow these groups to work more directly with the United Nations to promote understanding of the worldwide abuse and discrimination of LGBT people.

Source: SX News

A Disproportionate Amount of Homeless Youth Identify as LGBT

The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, in collaboration with the National Coalition for the Homeless, released a report on December 14 that estimated that 42 percent or up to 1.6 million homeless youth identify as LGBT. In comparison, only 3 to 5 percent of the U.S. population identifies as LGBT. In New York City alone, nearly 8,400 LGBT youth may be homeless this winter. The report also found that homelessness in LGBT youth is primarily caused by family conflicts: half of queer teens who come out experience some form of homophobia from their parents or guardians, 33 percent reported that they were assaulted when they came out, and 26 percent reported that they were kicked out of their homes. LGBT youth are also more vulnerable to sexual abuse, substance abuse, and mental health struggles than other youth.

Even in cities like New York and San Francisco, current resources to help LGBT youth are not sufficient. The Youth Empowerment Team at the San Francisco LGBT Community Center surveyed queer youth and found that the overwhelming majority of them do not feel safe in current homeless shelters.

Despite these setbacks, New York and San Francisco community members and lawmakers are taking steps to solve the problem. Family Builders By Adoption launched a program called No Place Like Home, which provides foster homes specifically for queer youth in the San Francisco Bay Area, and is seeking families willing to open their homes to queer youth. In New York, a group of city council members are working to increase funds allocated to support services specifically for homeless LGBT youth. Within two years, funds allocated to support services jumped from $1.2 million to $2.6 million, an increase they hope to make a permanent part of the city's annual budget.

Sources: The Advocate, Bay Area Reporter Online

Former President Ford Supported An Inclusive Republican Party

Former President Gerald Ford died on December 26, 2006, at the age of ninety-three. In 2002, years after his presidency, Ford joined the advisory board of the Republican Unity Coalition, a fund-raising group dedicated to making homosexuality a “non- issue” for the Republican Party. Ford told the Detroit News in 2001, “I have always believed in an inclusive policy, in welcoming gays and others into the party. I think the party has to have an umbrella philosophy if it expects to win elections.”

Source: The Advocate

Romney’s Last Stand

The Boston Globe reported that outgoing Massachusetts Governor Mitt Romney threatened to set aside pay raises for legislature members if they failed to vote on a proposed constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages. The proposed amendment was the result of a signature-gathering campaign headed by conservative groups, particularly the Massachusetts Family Institute.

On January 2, the amendment passed a second vote in the legislature by a 61-132 margin (it only needed 50 votes to pass). The amendment will now need to pass a second legislative vote early next year before Massachusetts residents can vote on it.

Source: 365gay.com Newscenter

Despite Marriage Bans, Same-Sex Couples Are Having Spendy Weddings

From pink-triangle napkin rings, to rainbow-jeweled rings, to husband-and-husband cake toppers, gays and lesbians are shelling out the big bucks for their weddings. Even though most of these events are purely ceremonial, same-sex couples are spending more and more money on their weddings. The Rainbow Wedding Network Web site publishes a national magazine and hosts wedding expos. In 2005, gays spent $7.2 million with vendors found at the site, up from $2.1 million in 2002, according to data collected by the organization.

Source: 365gay.com Newscenter

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